Christmas is closing in on us and it’s time to post up a wish list! I’ve been a good boy, right Santa?!
Wishlist for x’mas 2009!
1) It would be like TOTALLY awesome if someone could get me Lady GaGa endorsed Heartbeat head phones. My headphones died on me! =( [other models from Dr Dre or the exact same headphones of mine will do as well] =P
2) Accessories! Cuz a boy can never have too much accessories! Trying to find those rings for 2/3 fingers. Hard to find.
3) Clinique Happy for Men. Love the scent!
4) A rubber watch i can wear to exercise!
5) Hmm. Anyone knows where i can get track shoes? My track shoes are somewhat spoilt.
6) Iphone + accessories! [Just putting it here for fun cuz my mum is already getting it for me within the next 2 weeks]
7) Shoes? Toys? or a nice jacket? I love me my jackets =P
I shall wish upon a star that i at least get the headphones i want! My headphones died!
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Now, on to the main post!
It’s christmas! The time of giving and receiving! What we receive and give is up to us, and thus also up to us to choose how we respond to it. Those closer would probably know of the nonsense in my life by now. Shan’t go into the tedious long story but i will say this much. After going through such nonsense (still ongoing), i have found that however bad a situation may be, it’s up to us to choose how to deal with it. So life has dealt u a bad hand. You still have the choice to fold on go on betting.
While dealing with the ongoing in my family life, there’s always bound to be friends and problems that arise. For some reason, i have a strong believe that trouble attracts even more troubles. There’s one thing about me. I try my very best not to take nor receive any relationship advice. Not because i’m very confident in myself and my methods but rather, what works for others might not work for you. Similarly, i don’t give relationship advice unless asked for because it does seem somewhat wrong to impose my idea of what a relationship should be unto another person. To me, a relationship is about 2 people and how they blend with each other. Thus recently when i was dragged into the relationship of a friend and made to be a peace maker. Though unwilling, i still stupidly went along with it. Until it blew up in my face and i became collateral damage.
Giving and receiving belongs in the same plane held in intricate balance. You can’t have double standard to choose what you actually want to accept. If you do already wish to give advice, you’ll have to be prepared to receive advice with regards to your own relationship as well. After all, none of us are perfect and neither is our relationship. Evaluate someone’s r/s and risk your own being evaluated.
On a lighter note, isn’t the term ‘Giving and Receiving’ so kinky? Sauna’s like absolut should put up an xmas promotion! Cum in with the spirit of christmas. Be open to the art of giving and receiving! =P
Love you guys lots. Give and receive safely yea? =)
Johnathon
ps. All the items on the wishlist can be bought in singapore! Let me know if you need me to tell you the place to buy it. =)
